The art of kissing.
- September 25, 2021 at 9:31 am #87124RupertoParticipant
How to properly kiss a guy
Kissing is not a science, but rather an art in which there are no strict rules. If you act mechanically, as per the instructions, the partner may think that a kiss with him is not very interesting to you. Although there are general recommendations on how to properly kiss, they should be diluted with a generous share of improvisation. Then the kiss will be sincere and addressed personally to your chosen one.
How to kiss correctly step by step
You can use this proven scheme as a basis:
Put your arm around your partner and look him straight in the eyes.
Touch his lips with your lips. Start gently grabbing his lips with your own.
If you want to move on to deeper kisses, lightly touch the cleavage between the upper and lower lips with your tongue.
Follow the partner’s reaction. If he does not pull away, you can gently push your tongue a little further.
Alternate between deeper and lighter impacts – so your kiss will be diverse and exciting.
If desired, you can gradually increase the pace and make the kisses more intense.
During a deep French kiss, the “mill” technique is usually used, in which the tongues, touching, rotate around each other.
You do not need to open your mouth too wide and draw in air strongly. This can be not only unpleasant, but also traumatic.
During the kiss, try to relax your lips and not pull them too much forward.
Finish the kiss by performing the same actions in reverse order, gradually reducing the intensity of movement and moving on to gentle touches with your lips.
The moment after a kiss often causes awkwardness, and this is absolutely normal. Genuine embarrassment can be sweet and charming. If you feel quite confident, you can say how much you liked the kiss, smile and hug your partner.
How to properly kiss without a tongue
Not everyone likes deep French kisses. For such cases, we suggest learning how to kiss only with your lips – it can be no less exciting.
During such a kiss, you need to relax your lips without squeezing or opening them. Lightly suck your partner’s lips, gently touching them. Some people compare such a kiss with sucking a drink through a straw. Previously, it is better to take care that the lips are not dry and chapped, using a non-sticky balm.
Keep an eye on oral hygiene
One of the most important components of a successful kiss is the absence of bad breath. Few people will like a kiss with the” aroma ” of garlic or cigarettes. Just in case, carry a piece of gum with you. During the day, you can also use dental floss – this will help to remove food particles that get stuck between the teeth and cause an unpleasant smell.
However, sometimes neither floss, nor gum, nor even toothpaste does not solve the problem of stale breath. This means that, most likely, the cause is not in the oral cavity. For example, the smell may be associated with diseases of the digestive system. Conclusion: if you want to kiss well, watch your health.
Unfortunately, not all people still understand the importance of mutual consent to actions in which you invade the personal space of another person. The worst thing you can do with a kiss is not to make sure that both sides want it. It is important to observe the reaction of the partner and stop at the slightest signs of discomfort on his part.
The modern ethics of romantic relationships provides for another option – to ask a direct question whether the partner wants this at the moment. This approach will demonstrate your interest and attention to the personal boundaries of the person you like.
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